5 When King David came to Bahurim, there came out a man of the family of the house of Saul, whose name was Shimei, the son of Gera, and as he came he cursed continually. 6 And he threw stones at David and at all the servants of King David, and all the people and all the mighty men were on his right hand and on his left. 7 And Shimei said as he cursed, "Get out, get out, you man of blood, you worthless man! 8 The LORDhas avenged on you all the blood of the house of Saul, in whose place you have reigned, and the LORD has given the kingdom into the hand of your son Absalom. See, your evil is on you, for you are a man of blood." 9 Then Abishai the son of Zeruiah said to the king, "Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king? Let me go over and take off his head." 10 But the king said, "What have I to do with you, you sons of Zeruiah? If he is cursing because the LORD has said to him, 'Curse David,' who then shall say, 'Why have you done so?'" 11 And David said to Abishai and to all his servants, "Behold, my own son seeks my life; how much more now may this Benjaminite! Leave him alone, and let him curse, for the LORD has told him to. 12 It may be that the LORD will look on the wrong done to me, and that the LORD will repay me with good for his cursing today." 13 So David and his men went on the road, while Shimei went along on the hillside opposite him and cursed as he went and threw stones at him and flung dust. 14 And the king, and all the people who were with him, arrived weary at the Jordan. And there he refreshed himself.
If we took everything as the Lord wills and left it in his hands?
Wouldn't that change our perspective?
Instead of seeing it (when hurt or abused by people) as they hate me and want to hurt me, but as "the Lord wills this" and who knows what might happen as the result of it.
Perhaps it won't make the situation easier to have to deal with, but mentally wouldn't it make it easier to handle? To cede the duty over to the Lord to handle as he sees fit?
We can't see the future.
We don't know what the Lord has in store for us.
We don't know if today's trouble is tomorrow's blessing.
IF we believe in the Lord God... shouldn't we delegate that responsibility over to him? isn't it his in the first place?
Makes a body think doesn't it?